Have you ever asked your child, “What did you learn today?” and received a shrug or a one-word answer? It’s a question many parents ask, but it often doesn’t spark much conversation. While it’s natural to want to know about your child’s day, there are other ways to connect with them that encourage more meaningful dialogue and help reinforce their learning at home.

Instead of the usual question, try asking something specific, like, “What was the most interesting thing you heard today?” or “Did anything make you laugh in class?” These open-ended prompts invite your child to share their experiences in a way that feels fun and relaxed. You can also ask about their feelings, such as, “What made you feel proud today?” or “Was there anything tricky you had to figure out?” These questions help children reflect on their day, develop emotional awareness, and build confidence in their problem-solving abilities.

Learning doesn’t have to stop when the school bell rings. Engage your child in everyday activities that reinforce what they’re learning in class. Cooking together is a great way to practise maths through measuring ingredients while reading a story at bedtime can strengthen literacy skills. Even a simple walk outdoors can spark conversations about nature, science, or the world around them. Playing board games that involve strategy or numbers is another fun way to develop critical thinking and numeracy skills. By weaving learning into daily life, you’re showing your child that education is both valuable and enjoyable.

Another idea is to create a routine where you and your child share highlights from your day over dinner or during a quiet moment in the evening. This not only strengthens your bond but also models the importance of reflection and communication. Encouraging your child to ask you questions about your day can make these conversations feel more like a two-way exchange, fostering mutual curiosity and respect.

So next time you’re tempted to ask, “What did you learn today?” try something new and see where the conversation takes you.

Sarah Jennings, Primary Curriculum Coordinator